Great job – you took the first step in getting help by starting the conversation!  Next, it’s always helpful to come prepared with questions that you want answered. Here are some questions that you can have handy for your visit:  

  • Can you help me address my sexual concerns? If not, can you refer me to a provider who can?
  • What might be causing my sexual concerns?
  • Do I need medical tests?
  • What is your diagnosis? (e.g., caused by physical factors, psychological factors, relationship problems, or a combination?)
  • What solution(s) do you recommend?
    • Self-education strategies
    • Improved partner communication
    • Therapy (sex therapy or other types)
    • Devices
    • Lifestyle changes
    • Medication
    • Other?
  • Should my partner(s) be involved in treatment and/or therapy?
  • Do you have other information or resources you can share with me?